Instead of evaluating the personalities of the two sides in the dispute, we should emphasize the differences in personality and ability between the two sides, so as to objectively play a positive or negative effect and resolve the dispute. When people quarrel, they often argue about who is right and who is wrong, who is good and who is bad. Direct praise or criticism will at least cause one side's dissatisfaction, and even hurt their self-esteem. Therefore, when persuading one side, the persuaders should avoid the heavy and take the light, not judge the moral superiority of both sides, but emphasize the differences in personality and ability between the two sides, affirm one side objectively, make them satisfied and give up the dispute.
Emphasize the differences between the two sides of the dispute
Avoid the topic by asking the other person questions - Yong Xiang Dui Fang Fa Wen De Fang Shi Bi Kai Hua Ti
Preside over the meeting still guide, avoid cut off words - Zhu Chi Hui Yi Shang Yin Dao Ji Qie Yan Duan Liu
The key to talking with strangers is to find common ground - Yu Mo Sheng Ren Kai Kou Jiao Tan Guan Jian Shi Yao Zhao Dao Gong Tong Dian
How to shorten the psychological distance with strangers - Ru He Suo Duan Yu Mo Sheng Ren De Xin Li Ju Li
How to overcome the dependence psychology - Ru He Ke Fu Yi Lai Xin Li
Help others, but stick to principles - Zhu Ren Wei Le Dan Yao Jian Chi Yuan Ze
Pay attention to "sending charcoal in the snow" when giving gifts - Song Li Yao Jiang Jiu Xue Zhong Song Tan
Take the initiative to do what the superior has not explained - Zhu Dong Qu Zuo Shang Ji Mei You Jiao Dai De Shi
Refuse on the pretext of "others" - Yi Ta Ren Wei Jie Kou Jin Hang Ju Jue
Humor is needed to make a round - Da Yuan Chang Yong Yu Xu You Mo
Once the contract is terminated, the claim cannot be applied for - Yi Dan Jie Chu He Tong Jiu Wu Fa Shen Qing Li Pei