It's a good way to ask for help to let the other party know the favor and help you willingly. For this reason, you might as well let the other party taste the sweetness first and then make a request.
Chinese people often say that "it's a short mouth to eat others". Once they accept the advantages of others, take advantage of them, and then refuse their requests, it's not so nice to speak.
The Chinese people pay attention to human feelings and face, and "a drop of water will be rewarded by a gushing spring". Smart people use this tactic, and "sugar coated shells" often hit once, and try everything.
Therefore, when we ask friends to do business, especially those who are not very close friends, we might as well give them some sweets to make them happy or owe them a favor, so that they will try their best to help us.
Let the other party taste the sweetness before asking for help
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