Thank you for not doing it

When asking friends to do things, there are many people who have such a mentality. If they help themselves, they naturally want to thank each other. If they don't, they think they don't have to thank each other and even blame each other. In fact, this kind of mentality is wrong. Even if the other party did not help you to do things well, it may be due to some objective reasons, but he may do his best. The failure may be due to other reasons rather than his. So, in this case, you still need to thank the other person.

Make friends and do business, no matter whether the other party has done it or not, you should be grateful to the person who helps you. In real life, asking for help is not a one shot deal. This time, for some reasons, the other party can't do it well. Maybe next time, I can help you do other things well. You don't have to thank someone if you think they didn't do it well anyway. It seems that you are not worthy of being grateful for your work. In this way, the other party may think you are impersonal and may not help you any more.

There are many such examples in life. For an expert, even if a friend did not do his own thing well, still want to thank him. This not only maintained friendship, but also laid a solid foundation for future exchanges.

If other people go through all kinds of difficulties for you, but they don't help you do it for various reasons, and you don't even have a "thank you" and encouragement, then you don't expect the other person to help you do anything in the future.