Using "heterosexual effect" to build network

There is such a natural law in nature: "the same sex repels, the opposite sex attracts." Yes, because you often see two male lions fighting for a female lion. You've never seen two male lions live in harmony. We can't change the law of nature, but intelligent human beings can use it. And the creator is in line with nature's mind, so that there are men and women between heaven and earth. There is an invisible magnetic field between them, which attracts each other, including love, but also friendship. Women and women, men and men are often antagonistic and lack of proper communication. However, we do not rule out the self-knowledge and friend relationship between women and women, men and men.

Therefore, if you want to have a wide range of contacts, you may as well make use of your natural capital. If you are a woman, you may as well make more male friends, who are often the most powerful support when you are in trouble. If you are a man, you may as well make more female friends, then the warmth around you will be more and lasting. This is the so-called "sexual effect" of contacts.

If young men and women want to have a tacit understanding with the opposite sex, they really need to integrate psychological, social, eloquence and other knowledge and skills. However, when many people associate with the opposite sex they just met, they are shy, nervous, embarrassed and at a loss, which makes people feel uneasy all the time. They even squeeze two lines of social intercourse, and they don't know where to slip their usual witty and witty words. In fact, there are only two key principles for communicating with the opposite sex: one is to adopt a positive and cordial attitude, not to say "no" to the opposite sex easily, because it is easier to hurt the other party's self-esteem; the other is to appear confident, not to be flustered and unable to get along with the opposite sex. Of course, mutual respect is essential in heterosexual communication, otherwise it will bring unnecessary conflicts.