Since they are villagers, they must have common characteristics between the two sides, and the most important one is "local accent".
Li Lianying, the eunuch of the last Qing Dynasty, is a typical example of this technique.
Li Lianying was born in a poor family and was small and thin. He was not qualified to be a eunuch in the Qing Dynasty. By chance, Li Lianying heard that there was a eunuch in the palace who was his hometown and from the same village. So he boldly went to find the fellow townsman.
At that time, Li Lianying was very poor and had no money to buy things to give gifts. He knew that the fellow townsman attached great importance to his hometown, but the problem of how to attract the attention of the fellow townsman had been bothering him all the time.
Finally, he came up with a way. One day, he decided to sign up when the villager came out on duty, and then said his name and native place in his native dialect. Li Lianying's fellow townsman trembled at the sound, so he looked up at the fellow townsman in front of him and wrote it down in his heart.
Later, with the help of this fellow townsman, Li Lianying became a eunuch in the room where Empress Dowager Cixi combed her hair. She got a good hairstyle and was deeply loved by Cixi. Finally, she became the most popular person in front of her.
Li Lianying only said a few words to win the other party's attention and favor, but it should be noted that these words are native dialect, and the other party happens to be a fellow townsman, and also in a foreign land. In this case, it is not surprising that Li Lianying can easily win a place.
It can be said that it is unique to use the dialect of hometown as a greeting. It does not need material things. Here, one thing is very important, that is, when using this method, it is best to be in a foreign land, because in a foreign land, there will be a feeling of love for the hometown, and then "love the hometown and people". At this time, there will be another "meeting the hometown from a foreign land". How can we not be happy? The longer the other party is away from home and the farther away they are away from home, the deeper and deeper their feelings will be.
Using "local accent" to ask fellow villagers to handle affairs
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