As the saying goes: "a gun strikes a bird in the head." It's always enviable to be too sharp. Only when a person always keeps a modest attitude, can he go a long way.
When you are in a superior position in the workplace, it is a happy thing. If someone mentions flattery, you will immediately be intoxicated and happy, which will virtually strengthen the jealousy of others. Therefore, in the face of colleagues' praise and congratulation, you should be modest, polite and modest, which can not only show your gentleman demeanor, play down colleagues' jealousy towards you, but also win colleagues' admiration for you.
"Xiaojiang mentioned business manager more than a year after graduation. It's amazing and has a bright future! Congratulations Xiao Ye, a friend working in other units, said with great admiration.
"Nothing, nothing, man. You flatter me. The main reason is that we have good soil and water here, and the leaders and colleagues praise me. " When Xiao Jiang saw that Xiao Wu, who graduated from university in the same year, was in the office, he suppressed his inner joy and answered modestly. Although Xiao Wu was also jealous of Xiao Jiang's promotion, seeing that he was so modest, he took the initiative to greet Xiao Jiang's friend Xiao Ye with a smile: "come to play? Please sit down
It's not hard to imagine that if Xiaojiang said "I can be promoted by my level and ability" at this time, then it's strange that Xiaowu is not jealous and has difficulty getting along with Xiaojiang.
In the workplace, when you are obviously better than your colleagues, you still have to be with them emotionally. You should never distance yourself from them, so that your colleagues will no longer be jealous of you. At the same time, you will admit in your heart that your "priority" is earned by your own efforts. When you are in the superior position, you should pay attention to your inferior position, which will reduce the psychological pressure of the envious person, and produce a psychological balance feeling of "Oh, he is as incompetent as me", so as to weaken and even avoid the jealousy to you.
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