Maintain good appearance, increase interpersonal attraction

It's very important to make a good first impression when dealing with people, especially when meeting for the first time. Psychologists point out that when people meet for the first time, the first thing they pay attention to is each other's appearance.

There is a passage in the romance of the Three Kingdoms

Pang Tong is ugly but talented. He went to see Sun Quan and wanted to work for Soochow. Sun Quan was originally a leader who loved talents, but when he saw Pang Tong's ugly appearance, he didn't like him very much. On the other hand, he was arrogant and uninhibited, which made him even more unpopular. In the end, he turned away Pang Tong, who was as famous as Zhuge Liang. Lu Su's hard advice was of no help.

Thus, appearance has a great influence on interpersonal attraction, especially when dealing with strangers for the first time. Although some people think that appearance can hardly be changed through personal efforts, it is unfair to use it as a factor of interpersonal attraction; although people often say that "people can't judge by appearance, the sea can't measure, judge people by appearance, and delay big things", everyone has a love for beauty. It is human nature to love beauty. No matter what kind of cultural background, beautiful people are always easy to be liked Huan is always easier to promote the development of their interpersonal relationship.

Maybe you will say that appearance is given by parents, how can you change it. It's true that we can't change our appearance, but we can change our image and show ourselves through appearance. Maybe you are ugly, but you are a person who pays attention to speech and behavior and knows how to dress. Then your appearance is often ignored by others, and you will be easily accepted and loved by others.