Give people enough private space

In life, I wonder if you have noticed such a phenomenon:

In the station, park for people to rest on the bench, usually sit at both ends of the people, once both ends of the position are occupied, almost few people will take the initiative to sit in the middle of the position.

For a bench with four people, the first person will sit in the middle of the bench, the later person will sit on one side of the bench, and the person in the middle will move to the other end of the bench. So, originally can sit 4 people's bench, two people "full".

When taking a bus, if only the last row of seats is available, the person walking in front will sit in the middle, and when there are two seats next to it, the person behind will most likely sit in the seat by the window on both sides, instead of sitting next to the person in front.

No matter in the crowded car or in the elevator, you will care about the distance between others and yourself. When others are too close to you, you will adjust your position to avoid the unpleasant feeling of approaching; but when you are full of people who can't change, you will bear the unhappiness in your heart with indifference to other passengers, and you will look numb.

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All these phenomena show that people need to keep a certain space distance. Everyone needs to have a self space around him, which is like an invisible "bubble" and has a certain "field" for his "separatist regime". When this self space is violated, people will feel uncomfortable, unsafe, and even angry. Therefore, when we communicate with people, we must pay attention to this point, whether in space or in psychology, we must give people a certain space distance, so that we can get along with people better.