When you get along with people who are suspicious, don't be in a hurry for success. Be honest. Don't expect to gain their trust in a short time. You need a long time to persuade them to believe in your sincerity. It's just to help them solve their difficulties without any personal purpose.
First of all, be open and aboveboard. When other people's suspicions start to affect your relationship with your friends, you can quickly seek help from others - not necessarily experts, but also other friends. Open dialogue will help you clear your mind and dispel the shadows. At this time, you must not credulity suspicious people said with you, whether such words are in front of you or behind your back. The highest realm is magnanimous, don't care about other people's suspicions.
On the contrary, you may turn the misunderstanding into an open confrontation because of a temporary impulse. In this way, no matter who wins, the other party will feel unhappy or aggrieved. You have to be good at regulating and controlling your emotions. Don't let your emotions get the upper hand, but deal with it with a feasible attitude.
In addition, we should treat suspicious people gently, avoid rude preaching, and encourage them to have more contact and communication with others. If they do well, we should give sincere praise and praise from the heart.
As long as less suspicion and estrangement, treat them honestly, magnanimously and put themselves in their place to help them, they will change their suspicious personality. Never haggle over those worthless right and wrong with suspicious people, but get along with them with their own open mind.
How to get along with suspicious people
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