Application of retinal effect

The "retinal effect" is that when we own something or a feature, we will pay more attention to whether other people have the same feature as us.

What is the impact of the "retinal effect" on people? Mr. Carnegie put forward an argument a long time ago, that is, about 80% of everyone's characteristics are strengths or strengths, and about 20% are our weaknesses. When a person only knows what his shortcomings are, but does not know how to explore his advantages, "retinal effect" will make him find that many people around him have similar shortcomings, which makes his interpersonal relationship unable to improve and his life unhappy. Have you ever found that people who often scold others for being fierce are actually not very good tempered? This is the influence of the retinal effect.

To be popular and popular, one must develop the ability to appreciate and affirm oneself. Because under the influence of the "retinal effect", a person who sees his own merits will see the merits of others. Being able to look at others with a positive attitude is often a prerequisite for a good interpersonal relationship. So, from now on, learn to appreciate your own advantages and strengths!