Praise should not only accord with the reality in front of us, but also be forward-looking and predictable. Only in this way can you raise the height of your praise and make your praise stand the test of scrutiny and time.
Some things are relatively stable, such as people's appearance, personality, habits, etc., which are easy to praise. But some things are not stable, such as people's behavior, achievements, thoughts, attitudes, etc. if we take a long-term view, we should be careful when praising them. It's easy for a person to do a good deed under certain pressure or demand, but it's difficult to do a good deed all his life. If praise is limited to the matter, it is easy to make shortsighted mistakes.
Look far away when praising
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A toast to the baby's parents at the full moon banquet - Man Yue Yan Bao Bao Fu Mu Zhu Jiu Ci
Memorizing names and catching the hearts of strangers - Shu Ji Ming Zi Zhua Zhu Mo Sheng Ren De Xin
Borrow the reputation of others to ask for help - Jie Yong Ta Ren De Ming Qi Qiu Ren Ban Shi
Using the method of inviting the king into the urn to deal with others' deliberate difficulties - Yong Qing Jun1 Ru Weng Fa Ying Dui Bie Ren De Xu Yi Diao Nan
When it's hard, it's hard; when it's soft, it's soft - Gai Gang Ze Gang Dang Rou Ze Rou
Make your boss feel like you are a man of your word - Rang Shang Si Jiao De Ni Shi Yi Ge Xin Shou Nuo Yan De Ren
Don't apologize in front of the opposite sex - Yi Xing Mian Qian Bu Yao Yi Zai Dao Qian
What are the skills of investing in national debt - Tou Zi Guo Zhai You Shi Me Ji Qiao
What are the common ways of foreign exchange financing - Chang Jian De Wai Hui Li Cai Fang Shi You Na Xie
Eat in batches to avoid the risk of stamp products investment - Fen Pi Chi Jin Bi Mian You Pin Tou Zi Feng Xian