In life, when the other party deliberately makes trouble and says something embarrassing, the best way to get rid of it is to invite the emperor into the urn, skillfully use words to introduce the other party into this situation, and then retreat, so that the other party will be trapped and suffer its own consequences.
One day, a young scholar said to Heine, a Jew:
"Do you know what attracts my attention most on Tahiti? There are neither Jews nor donkeys on that island
Heine answered calmly
"But that can be changed - what will happen if we go to Tahiti together?"
Young scholars are red faced and speechless.
Another example is that one day, British playwright George Bernard Shaw was sitting on the sofa meditating. An American financier sitting next to him said to him, "Mr. Bernard Shaw, if you let me know what you are thinking, I would like to give you a dollar."
The financiers were obviously laughing at Bernard Shaw's poverty
"Ah, but my thinking is not worth a dollar. I'm thinking about you!"
In the above two stories, Heine and Bernard Shaw skillfully "take over" the topic of the troublemaker, and design a trap to connect the troublemaker with the things in the topic, so as to make themselves retreat, on the contrary, let each other become a joke.
Using the method of inviting the king into the urn to deal with others' deliberate difficulties
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