Be alert to each other's intimacy

It's easier to say "no" and say it better by giving people a "stay away" attitude. In other words, if the other party tries to get close to you, you should keep your head clear so as not to be an emotional prisoner and give the other party an opportunity. Generally speaking, people who can remember other people's names at a meeting are easy to approach. Therefore, in the conversation, we often call people by their names, and crown them with "brother" and "Sir", which often leads to a sense of closeness. On the other hand, when you want to say "no", you should put an end to this kind of intimacy, that is, the other party's name is not mentioned at all, so as to increase the other party's psychological distance and it is easy to say "no". In addition, when talking, try to stay away from each other, so that it is not easy for them to use touching intimate actions such as clapping and pulling. According to psychologists, "touch" is easy to produce common feelings, so we should pay attention to avoid saying "no". In addition, it is also best not to touch the other party's things. Things are just like people. Once they are touched, they will have a sense of intimacy. It's not easy to refuse.