If you ask for help, you can say what you want from others

It's also a good way to spread out what I want to do or try to do in his words, so as to achieve the purpose of asking people to do things.

Many friends will encounter a kind of distress: no money when asking for money, it doesn't matter when asking for a relationship. At this time, asking for help is like a dog biting a hedgehog. I don't know where to start. If you can pay more attention to the relationship between people in your daily life, especially the relationship between people with head and face, it will be useful in many cases.

For example, in order to promote their own products, someone knows that the manager of a company and the director of a company are old acquaintances, so he inquires about the manager's residence, carries a bag of fruit to visit, and after greeting each other, he says something like this:

"I was introduced by director Wang to find your door this time, and he asked me to say hello to you for him..."

"To be honest, the first time I met, I was very happy According to Director Wang, your company hasn't bought... "

The next day, the deal was closed. This person's cleverness is that he intentionally put aside himself and used the circuitous method of "getting the introduction of director Wang" to spread my innermost feelings through the words of the population and borrow the power of others, which made the other party accept it very quickly.