When persuading others, avoid official voice and official tone

The official tune will give people a kind of bureaucratic style of being superior, self respecting, subjective and arbitrary, and the role of giving directions and orders, which is very unfavorable to persuasion. Therefore, when persuading, we must adhere to the attitude of seeking truth from facts, be careful to use formulary, and strengthen the cultivation of language expression ability. In addition, when persuading others, if they don't have the conditions, they are eager to achieve success. They always want to achieve it once and for all without thinking about it. As a result, they have achieved twice as much in the past, and the effect of "success" is very little, even sharpening the contradiction.