Take the heart of yourself and the heart of others

Take the heart of yourself and the heart of others

Use your own mind and others' mind to speculate other people's mind.

idiom

Take the heart of yourself and the heart of others

pronunciation

yǐjǐzhīxīn，duórénzhīxīn

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In the doctrine of the mean, "do not do it to others if you do not want to do it to yourself." Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty noted: "if you treat others with your own heart, it is no different, then you can see that the way is not far away from others. Therefore, do not give to others what you do not want. "

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Use your own ideas to speculate on other people's minds. The doctrine of the mean "give to oneself, but not to others." Zhu Xi of Song Dynasty noted: "if the heart of oneself is the same as that of others, then the way is not far from that of others. So do not give to others what you do not want. " Mao Dun's "Midnight" 3: "Zhu Yinqiu is smiling there. When he hears sun Jiren talking about a long-distance bus or a mine, he honestly concludes that sun Jiren's Bank is" bath oriented "; he is the one who knows how to treat others with his own heart." Also known as "to their own heart, the belly of others.". According to Hu Yinglin's Shaoshi Shanfang bicong · Yilin Xueshan eight in Ming Dynasty, "Yang (Yang Shen) destroyed it with Zhu (Zhu Xi)'s taboo. How can he use his own heart to help others?" Ba Jin's Capriccio - a talk: "it's really a way to live with one's own heart. This is the most deplorable national nihilism! " It is also called "self serving". Hu Yinglin of the Ming Dynasty wrote in Shaoshi Shanfang bicong · new record of danpb 2: "vinegar ditch, Fang (Fang Hui), but the words are unknown, so I don't think I know them. If you use the word "Yang Shen" to ridicule him, you can't judge others by yourself! " Wang Fuzhi of the Qing Dynasty wrote "on reading Tongjian · emperor Gaodi II of the Han Dynasty": "those who accumulate evil, judge others by themselves, and doubt others for themselves."