courteous approach and generous gifts
In Chinese, the Pinyin is B ē IL ǐ h ò UB ì, which means the solemnity of employing personnel.
source
"Wei family" in historical records: "the number of Huiwang defeated the military, courteous and generous money to recruit virtuous."
Analysis of Idioms
[synonym]: despicable words
usage
He was invited by the imperial court with humble and generous money. He had a great future in the Song Dynasty. The 20th chapter of the history of pain by Wu Jianren in Qing Dynasty
courteous approach and generous gifts
fail to keep proper separation of the sexes in upper-class families - wéi bó bù xiū
kindness and hatred are clearly distinguished - ēn yuàn fēn míng
It's not that friends don't get together - bù shì yuān jiā bù jù tóu
Support the thunder and split the moon - chēng tíng liè yuè