Don't cut in when others are talking

In social interaction, when you see one of your friends chatting with another person you don't know, you may have the idea to add in.

Because you don't know what the topic they are talking about, and you may make them feel unnatural if you join them suddenly, so the topic may not go on. What's worse, maybe they are engaged in a major negotiation, but they can't concentrate on the deal because of your participation. Maybe they are having a heated discussion and thinking hard to solve a difficult problem. At this critical moment, maybe your intervention will lead to the collapse of the solution that is beneficial to them, and then the atmosphere will disappear It's going to be embarrassing and it's going to be impossible to clean up. At this time, people will feel that you are impolite and dislike you.

When you talk with your boss, you can't interrupt him, or he won't give you a good look.

When your boss arranges work for you, he will give you all kinds of explanations. Usually, his words just explain the process. Maybe the conclusion is not what you think. In addition to making people feel that you are very reckless, it also means that you despise your boss. If you come across a boss with a hot temper, I'm afraid you'll yell out loud: "shut up! Hear me out! "

If you want to get a good relationship with others, if you want others to like you and accept you, you must eradicate the bad habit of interrupting others' speech at will, and never interrupt others when they are talking.