Keep the integrity of your personality

Everyone has his own unique personality and behavior pattern, which is one of the sound personality characteristics. To get along with others, we should respect and understand others, and be more easygoing, but respect and understanding are not equal to unprincipled accommodation. No principle of accommodation, will not get the trust and respect of others, of course, can not let others welcome you.

If one wants to be respected by others, he must first respect himself. Self esteem and respect for others are unified. Respect for others is to respect his lofty virtues and his contribution to society. It is to learn from him, not to kowtow to him. Therefore, respect for others can not reduce their personality.

Maintaining the independence and integrity of one's personality is the expression of self-esteem. If a person does not have an independent personality, it is like walking dead.

If you want to keep your personality independent, you can't follow others' advice. You should think independently and have your own opinions. Independent thinking is not only a human right, but also a good quality of personality. Those who are good at independent thinking neither blindly follow nor reject the opinions of others, but choose the good and follow them. Superstition and blind obedience mean that one does not want rights and reduces one's personality. It is blind self-confidence not to consider other people's opinions.