Face up to the problem of love weakening after marriage

After entering the "Besieged City" of marriage, the intimacy and attraction between husband and wife are often not as good as that between lovers. Both sides feel that their feelings are much less than before marriage. Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, which is an exaggeration of this phenomenon.

Therefore, in the case of weakening feelings, both husband and wife should actively adjust their mentality, calmly accept this reality, and then seek other ways to develop their feelings.

Mutual tolerance between husband and wife is an indispensable factor to maintain psychological balance. The most taboo between husband and wife is that they both speak out loud. As long as they care more about each other's ideas, they won't get into trouble. It's just like the word "partner" of "lovers". The word has two mouths, but the two mouths are not the same big, that is, one "big mouth" and one "small mouth". This tells us that when one of the spouses or lovers speaks loudly, the other should speak a little louder. If two people are equally loud and speak ill of each other, and eventually turn into "verbal violence", it is easy to have big problems. Later, it is likely to get out of hand.

Therefore, the husband and wife are just like sitting on both ends of the seesaw, they must constantly adjust their position, otherwise they will not be able to achieve a stable relationship. The most important factor of marriage breakdown is not the differences between husband and wife, but the inability to properly deal with these differences. Therefore, only mutual tolerance and adaptation can keep the psychological balance between husband and wife, so as to have a happy marriage.