How to deal with the arrogant

Those who are lofty and proud value self-image more, have higher self-evaluation and feel good about themselves. When dealing with him, we may as well adopt the way that he likes, and praise his achievements, knowledge, ability and so on in a realistic way, so as to satisfy his sense of honor and self-esteem. In this way, the distance can be shortened psychologically, which can also affect their attitude. For example, there is a director who is arrogant in nature. It is difficult for ordinary strangers to approach him. His stiff and indifferent face often makes people shy away. A clerk from other places heard of his temper. As soon as he met him, he handed a cigarette with a smile and said, "director, as soon as I came in, someone told me that the director is a pleasant person, serious and compassionate, especially taking special care of people from other places. When I heard that, I was very happy. I love to work with such a leader, happy These opening remarks made the director smile on his face immediately, and then he went on to talk about the business, which was successful.

Some people are arrogant because of their rich knowledge and extensive experience, and they look down on others at all, showing a strong pride. To deal with this kind of arrogance, we only need to skillfully set up a difficult problem to restrain its arrogance. This is because, no matter how extensive their knowledge and experience, in this vast world, a person's cognition is limited after all. Once the other party finds that they also have knowledge defects, their pride will naturally disappear.