Try to save the face of colleagues

Everyone cherishes his face, so in the process of communicating with colleagues, don't talk too hard, otherwise the result will be that he has no way to go.

Such absolute assertions as "I'll never do those stupid things you've screwed up" and "you're as absent-minded as ×× and look at his bad looks" will upset anyone.

How important it is to save the face of others! And we rarely think about it. We often like to put on airs, go our own way, criticize, intimidate, and criticize our colleagues or subordinates in front of others, without considering whether it hurts others' self-esteem. In fact, as long as you think about it for a few minutes and say a few words of concern, you can ease many unpleasant scenes.

A truly visionary person will not only accumulate maximum popularity for himself in his daily communication with colleagues bit by bit, but also leave considerable room for maneuver for the other party. To save face for others is to earn face for yourself. It is quite advisable to use more neutral words such as "may", "maybe", "I'll try" and some neutral words with weak emotional color and unclear commendatory and derogatory meaning in order to "stretch freely".

Everyone has self-esteem and vanity. Even beggars don't want to be eaten in vain because they hurt their self-esteem and lose face, not to mention their colleagues who are equal in status. However, many people always like to spoil the fun of others - it's hard to save their colleagues' face in person, so that they tear their face in person and lose big things for small things. Even if we are right and others are wrong, if we do not save face for others, we will lose both sides.