When criticizing, we must aim at the matter itself, not at people. Everyone will do something wrong, and doing something wrong doesn't mean how he is. It's the behavior itself that's wrong, not someone. Remember: never criticize people.
When criticizing others, don't be personal
The three grades of work and leisure wear must be remembered by heart! - Gong Zuo Xiu Xian Zhuang De San Ge Deng Ji Ding Yao Shu Ji Yu Xin
The strategy of striking after others in negotiation - Tan Pan Zhong De Hou Fa Zhi Ren Ce Lue
See each other's personality from the quality of earrings they wear - Cong Suo Dai Er Huan Zhi Di Kan Dui Fang De Ge Xing
Seeing through the "gentleman" who is good at camouflage - Kan Chuan Shan Yu Wei Zhuang De Jun1 Zi
Detecting people's heart from their voice - Cong Shuo Hua Sheng Yin Da Xiao Tan Ce Ren Xin
Using gestures to see if the other person is lying - Cong Shou Shi Kan Dui Fang Shi Fou Zai Shuo Huang
Refuse to drink in a preemptive way - Yong Xian Sheng Zhi Ren De Fang Shi Ju Jiu
Refuse to drink by catching each other's loopholes - Yong Zhua Dui Fang Lou Dong De Fang Shi Ju Jiu
When persuading others, avoid official voice and official tone - Shuo Fu Ta Ren Shi Ji Guan Qiang Guan Diao
Use a third party to convey your apology - Jie Zhu Di San Zhe Lai Zhuan Da Zi Ji De Qian Yi
Pretending to be a hero to cheat money - Jia Ban Ying Xiong Pian Qian Cai