No matter telling the leader right or wrong or interests, we can't hurt his feelings, because it shows that what he is doing is calculating for himself rather than working hard for everyone.
For example, leaders criticize their subordinates for their mistakes. If subordinates think they are right, they often can't help explaining to the leaders that this is not my fault or that I didn't do it wrong, that it was the other party or God's will that was wrong, so they discuss and even argue with the leaders. Sometimes, when subordinates argue, they find that they are still wrong, and they are very worried. And some leaders will be very generous to smile and say, it doesn't matter, just pay attention in the future.
It turns out that the leader is very happy because he has finally convinced his subordinates, so he may not care about their attitude.
Sometimes, subordinates finally prove their correctness. When they are happy, they find that the leader is not happy. The sign of unhappiness is that leaders will say, "anyway, you still have some shortcomings!" Or: "in any case, it can be done perfectly!"
Therefore, when pleading with leaders, we must pay attention to the ways and occasions. As long as it is not a big problem of principle, we must save face for leaders and consider the authority they need in their work. Even the necessary defense should be gentle and calm.
Chinese PinYin : Gen Shang Si Mei You Dao Li Ke Jiang
There's no "reason" with the boss
"Spot check" what he said to break men's lies. Chou Cha Ta Shuo Guo De Hua Dian Po Nan Ren De Huang Yan
Live your own life, never compare with others. Guo Zi Ji De Sheng Huo Yong Yuan Bu Yao Yu Bie Ren Bi
Preside over the meeting is still infected, avoid cold as frost. Zhu Chi Hui Yi Shang Gan Ran Ji Leng Ruo Bing Shuang
Inner exploration of people who brush their teeth with little toothpaste. Yong Hen Shao Ya Gao Shua Ya Zhi Ren De Nei Xin Tan Cha
The personality of people who like to eat while watching TV. Xi Huan Yi Bian Kan Dian Shi Yi Bian Chi Fan De Ren De Xing Ge
Those who refuse to love should decline politely. Ju Jue Bu Ai De Qiu Ai Zhe Yi Wan Yan Xie Jue
Avoid "intoxication". Quan Jiu Ji Quan Zui
Hide the truth from the world and build an impermeable wall. Man Tian Guo Hai Zao Jiu Bu Tou Feng De Qiang
Don't overstate your salary demands. Bu Yao Ba Xin Shui Yao Qiu Shuo De Guo Si
When persuading others, avoid official voice and official tone. Shuo Fu Ta Ren Shi Ji Guan Qiang Guan Diao
Apology should be sincere. Dao Qian Yao You Cheng Yi
Be adventurous, but don't bet blindly. Yao You Mao Xian Jing Shen Dan Bu Yao Mang Mu Xia Zhu