When people use the network to handle affairs, they always think that there is only suspicion and jealousy among colleagues. In fact, this is wrong. In modern society, a person spends almost the same time with his family as with his colleagues. If he doesn't make use of his colleagues when doing things, he will not only make some things difficult to do, but also make people feel that you are not popular.
So how can we use our colleagues to do good?
(1) Be sincere when dealing with colleagues: colleagues know more about each other and have a deep understanding. If you find colleagues to deal with things, it's easy to make them feel distrustful. Therefore, if you want to find a colleague to handle affairs, you should be honest and say why you can't do it and why you want to find him. In this way, colleagues will not refuse you as long as they can do it.
(2) Find colleagues to be polite: colleagues are not friends, generally do not have too deep friendship. Therefore, you should be polite before asking for help. It's better to discuss with colleagues in the tone of consultation, suggesting that you ask him for help and find a way. After doing something, generally do not use money to express gratitude. Insisting on taking money to express gratitude is easy to cause resentment, because accepting material gratitude when colleagues do something will leave a bad impression.
(3) Find a colleague to do things with a definite aim: before you do something, you should first know the social relationship of the colleague, and that it is not too difficult for him to do it. Only by mastering these situations, can you open your mouth and get three points of interest, and will not make colleagues in a dilemma.
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