In those occasions where it is not suitable to answer completely according to the other party's question, you can use the fuzzy answer to avoid the main question. It can let you skillfully avoid the specific content in the other party's question, and let the other party feel that you have not rejected his question, but it is not the answer he expected. For example:
Xiang Yu wanted to kill Liu Bang after he respected himself.
Fan Zeng made an idea and said:
"When Liu Bang went to court, the king asked him," I have sent you to Nanzheng. Would you like to go? " If he says yes, you will say that he intends to conserve his energy and be rebellious, so you can tie him out and kill him; if he says no, you will kill him by disobeying the king's orders. "
After Liu Bang went to the hall, Xiang Yu clapped his desk and asked in a loud voice:
"Liu Bang, I sent you to Nanzheng. Would you like to go?"
Liu Bang replied:
"If you eat your salary, your life depends on you. If your majesty is on a horse, you can ride with a whip and stop with a bridle. I'll listen to your orders. "
When Xiang Yu heard this, he had no choice but to say:
"Liu Bang, if you want to listen to me, don't go to Nanzheng."
Liu Bang said:
"I will comply with the order."
Liu Bang's language, avoiding the premise of Xiang Yu's questioning, deliberately said that he was loyal to Xiang Yu and "obedient", which made Xiang Yu unable to find an excuse to kill himself and created an opportunity for his comeback in the future.
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