Three baths and three quarrels
Sanyu Sanjiao, a Chinese idiom, Pinyin is s ā NY ù s ā nx ì n, which means bathing many times and applying spices to the body, comes from Guoyu · Qiyu.
Idiom explanation
Defiance: apply incense to your body. Bathe many times and apply perfume to your body. This is a kind of courtesy in ancient China.
The origin of Idioms
"Guoyu · Qiyu" said: "compared to the three fights and three baths, Duke Huan went against it in the suburbs, and sat down with it and asked Yan."
Three baths and three quarrels
the hardship of nourishing an offspring - tuī zào jū shī
sharpen one 's sword and oil one 's gun - mó dāo cā qiāng
keep modest so as to cultivate one 's moral character - bēi yǐ zì mù