Ruin one's family
Chinese idiom, Pinyin is k ē ngji ā B à iy è, which means that the industry is scattered and the family is in decline. From a dream of Red Mansions.
The idiom comes from Chapter 48 of Cao Xueqin's a dream of Red Mansions in Qing Dynasty: "it's nothing to do for this little thing to make a person sink his family and ruin his career."
Ruin one's family
be never seen without a book in hand - shǒu bù shì shū
be neither rewarded nor penalized for doing a good or a bad job - shǎng fá bù míng