Ruin one's family
Chinese idiom, Pinyin is k ē ngji ā B à iy è, which means that the industry is scattered and the family is in decline. From a dream of Red Mansions.
The idiom comes from Chapter 48 of Cao Xueqin's a dream of Red Mansions in Qing Dynasty: "it's nothing to do for this little thing to make a person sink his family and ruin his career."
Ruin one's family
mutual help and relief in time of poverty - xiāng rú yǐ mò
Warm willows and spring flowers - liǔ nuǎn huā chūn
Four bodies do not work hard, five grains do not divide - sì tǐ bù qín,wǔ gǔ bù fēn
Going beyond the limit is as bad as falling short. - guò yóu bù jí