Hold hands
Handshake, a Chinese word, Pinyin is d ǎ och í sh ǒ UB ǎ n, which means that ancient officials held handshake to court. To hold on to one's hand means to be in a state of panic. It's the same as the "hands-on version". It comes from Qinyuanchun and Linqing rhyme again.
The idiom comes from Liu Kezhuang's Qin yuan Chun and Lin Qing Yun in Song Dynasty: "when you are in a new pavilion, if you hold your hands firmly, it's like returning to the political affairs hall."
Hold hands
What you say but what you don't do - yǒu kǒu wú xíng
The sky is high and the emperor is far away - tiān gāo huáng dì yuǎn
I wish you a lump in your throat - zhù yān zhù gěng