can 't help
Chinese idiom, Pinyin is B ù y ó uz ì zh ǔ, which means you can't control yourself. From the 81st chapter of a dream of Red Mansions by Cao Xueqin in Qing Dynasty.
The origin of Idioms
The eighty first chapter of Cao Xueqin's a dream of Red Mansions in the Qing Dynasty: "I don't remember it very much, but I feel that I can't help myself. It's like there's someone who wants me to kill."
Analysis of Idioms
Synonym: can't help it, can't help it antonym: independent, self reliant
Idiom usage
It is also used as predicate and adverbial
can 't help
be courteous to the wise and condescending to scholars - lǐ xián xià shì
cannot bear playing second fiddle - bù gān hòu rén