Care for the inner world of children

The obvious manifestation of the generation gap between parents and children is that they can't talk together. Talking to children seems to require a similar talent than talking to the elderly. You have to be able to speak the child's words, understand the child's inner world, and even be as naive as the child, respecting the child's ideas and opinions.

Before you talk to your child, you have to approach him actively and naturally. Generally speaking, children who are not involved in the world are very shy. They dare not look at you or approach you. They think you are strange, big and old. Therefore, you don't expect to be intimate with your child all of a sudden, because your sudden closeness may cause the child's fear. When you start to contact with your children, you should consciously keep a distance from them, only pay attention to them once in a while, and show your favor. When your children are used to your existence and feel that you have no malice, then they can find an opportunity to approach them.

To really get along well with children, you must also understand their psychological and physical characteristics, and what they like and don't like.

With the development of society and the progress of science and technology, the development of children's intelligence tends to be more and more precocious. Therefore, reading the latest books, movies and novels about children's psychology will help you get along with your children.