How to get along with "suffocating cow"(zen yang yu men si niu de ren xiang chu )

"Suffocating cow" people are silent and stubborn. People always feel depressed and stressed when dealing with people who are "suffocating cows", especially those who are more outgoing and active. Therefore, in this case, some people deliberately seek topics in order to activate the atmosphere and break the situation. In fact, this is unnecessary. Because, for the silent people, the reason why they do so may be because there is something on their mind and they do not want to say more. In this case, you should respect each other, don't destroy each other's state of mind, and let them keep the way they choose to exist. On the contrary, if you deliberately have nothing to say, and try to talk with each other, it will cause the other's disgust and disgust, so that they do not want to be with you.

Due to the pressure and competition, especially the desire for success, self-awareness and self-esteem among people are obviously enhanced. "Suffocating cow" people not only pay attention to their own development, eager to realize their own value, but also show great sensitivity to the evaluation of the people around them, and often cause great emotional fluctuations. They hope to understand themselves from others' attitudes and comments on themselves, and understand themselves through external refraction, especially the attention of leaders, the respect of colleagues and the attitude of others towards themselves. As a person who cooperates with others, he should be sincere and give an objective and fair evaluation of his words and deeds. Only in this way can he reflect on himself and have the desire to communicate with others. For example, to get help from this kind of people, you can say: "I understand that it's not convenient for you to share your design with me now, but I want to know if you would like to see this. It's a difficulty that may appear in your work. To be honest, I'm not good at these problems. Maybe you can give me some advice. " In this way, he not only points out that he is proficient in business, but also shows great respect for him, so that the next communication will naturally come true.

Chinese PinYin : Zen Yang Yu Men Si Niu De Ren Xiang Chu