Don't use excuses to delay saying no

Some people feel inconvenient to say "no", so they casually find some worthless reasons to temporarily prevaricate each other, in order to get a temporary relief. This method is not good, because the other party can still find a reason to entangle with you until you agree. For example, if you don't want to promise to help him, you can say, "there's no time today." He would say, "it doesn't matter. You can do it for me tomorrow, and it's up to you."

Another example is that if you don't want a piece of clothing that the other party wants to transfer to you, you say, "money is not enough." Then the other party will say, "the money will be better later." It's easy to deal with you.

Or you don't want to dance with each other and say, "I can't dance well." Then he will say: "it doesn't matter. I'll take you slowly."

Because these are small lies, once refuted, you will be flustered, more difficult to say "no". So to deal with this kind of situation, you might as well tell the other party directly and clearly with a simpler reason: "you can't do this thing, please forgive me." "I don't like the color of this dress. I'm sorry." "I've got another date. I can't dance with you. I'm sorry." And so on.

Although it seems a little stiff, the reason is simple and clear. If you don't give the other party an opportunity, you can avoid future trouble.