We should be upright in our work and tactful in our life

To do things in a square way means to follow the rules and rules and never do things in a disorderly way. The Chinese people often say that "no rules, no circle" and "only when something is not done can something be done", which is the truth of "square". Every industry has its own insurmountable rules. For example, to be an official, we should absolutely abide by the principle of honesty, and be prepared for poverty from the very beginning, just like one of Zeng Guofan's family precepts, "eight mustn't": to be an official, we should be clean, and we should not be greedy. If a person's motive for becoming an official is not pure or gradually degenerated, and he attempts to seek personal gain or money from power, then he will not be a good official for a long time.

We should be harmonious. The term "harmony" here does not mean sophistication, nor mediocrity and incompetence. Instead, it means tactfulness. It is a kind of generosity and harmony. It means being wise as a fool. It means being kind to others. It is a highly sound and mature mind after being condescending and insightful. Don't be aggressive because you have insight into other people's weaknesses, don't be domineering because you are superior to others, don't let people feel afraid because you insist on your own personality and opinions at any time, don't drift with the tide in any situation, imperceptibly influence others and never make people feel forced This requires high quality, high understanding and flexible skills. The circle has the smallest pressure, the largest tension and the strongest plasticity.

This round is easy to do and not easy to do. It's easy to do because if people really have great wisdom, big mind, self-confidence, peace of mind, kind-hearted, everything to the good side, everything can stand in each other's position for the sake of others, people's weaknesses can be forgiven, even if they meet the devil also believe that they can do better, if they can, what else can people do?