Taboo of trusting relatives

Kinship is a relatively complex social relationship, mainly manifested in a variety of differences between relatives, such as economic, social status, personality, and so on.

These differences may not only be the cause of communication, but also the cause of contradiction. Therefore, to let relatives sincerely help you, work, in daily contacts should pay attention to the following points, do not make taboos.

(1) Don't be confused in economic contacts

In the process of communication, it is common for relatives to make conflicts for the sake of economic interests, alienate and worsen the relationship. It is common for relatives to borrow money and things, sometimes for emergency, sometimes for help, and sometimes for gifts. The situation is different, but they all reflect the special relationship between relatives.

But in any case, this economic account must be calculated clearly. Because relatives also have their own interests, the relationship can be maintained for a long time only if the relationship and property are clearly separated. If this is a muddle headed account, this problem will add fuel to the fire once conflicts arise in the future.

(2) Relatives taboo condescending or forced

Although relatives have different generations, they should also respect and treat each other equally. Especially when there are differences in status, income and position.

Sometimes the powerful relatives are prone to condescending and lack enthusiasm for the "poor relatives" who come to work. The low status of people are often very sensitive to being looked down upon, the other party a little slack, will be dissatisfied with the heart, make unhappy. Neither is desirable. In case of these problems, one party should pay attention not to give others difficulties as far as possible, and the other party should understand and not care too much even if the objective reasons can not meet their own needs.

(3) Taboo do whatever you want, do not be polite

Due to the distance between relatives, we should pay attention to the proper proportion in getting along with each other.

"The closer relatives go, the closer they are" is a general principle. However, depending on how you go, there are certain skills in it.

For example, in the past, visiting relatives could stay with relatives for a year and a half, but now there are many inconveniences. We all have jobs and our own living habits. If we live too long, many contradictions will be exposed.

Therefore, we should pay attention to our way of behavior in the contact with relatives. If the way is improper, it will also offend people.

Only by paying attention to the above problems, can we lay a good foundation for communication with relatives, and trust relatives to handle affairs with ease.