Ask for help from the elderly and children

When you ask for help, the person you ask for is usually young and strong, just at the age of "old on the top and young on the bottom". So when necessary, you can take the route of old people and children, get close to the goal roundly, and get closer to each other's feelings. Why are old people and children the ideal route? Because:

(1) The elderly and children are easy to access

Because of the lack of physical strength, the old people rest at home, and generally appear lonely because they are not accompanied. If someone takes the initiative to approach the elderly, even if it is to temporarily relieve the loneliness of the elderly, the elderly are very happy. Children are simple, curious and active: a Tang poem, a story and a grimace can quickly win the children's close.

(2) The elderly and children have great influence on the family

Chinese people have the tradition of respecting, respecting and filial piety for the elderly. If the elderly are relaxed and happy, the whole family will be active and happy. Chinese people also attach great importance to inheriting the family and regard children as the future of the family. Moreover, most children in modern families are "only children", and their families are even more flattering. If they can play with children, it's natural to ask for help.

So, what problems should we pay attention to when taking the route of the elderly and children?

We should pay attention to the following points when taking the route for the elderly and children:

(1) Learn more about and accumulate knowledge of the old and the young

In addition to perceptual investigation and observation, we should also do some rational accumulation at ordinary times, such as the knowledge of body-building, leisure, children's games and intelligence stories, so as to "make a good use of it by chance".

(2) Take the initiative to make friends

Conversation is the most direct means of information exchange in communication. When you enter a family, if you want to meet an old man or a child, you will have a harmonious atmosphere of "at first sight". The doorman should take the initiative to bring out the topic and open the conversation. Moreover, for the old man, you also show respect by opening your mouth. For the child, opening your mouth can eliminate the feeling of strangers.

(3) Don't look down on it. Be careful

We must be courteous, kind-hearted and courteous to the elderly. On the one hand, it shows your modesty and honesty; on the other hand, it shows your respect and admiration for the elderly. It is not advisable to exaggerate, hang the old man aside or look down upon his words and deeds. As a result, he can only be ignored or even chased out by the old man. Children are easy to cry, so we must be in accordance with the situation, to their liking, grasp the propriety.

When things don't go well, it's a wonderful way to get a good impression and get through the relationship.