Plateau, Dou Wei's second wife, a senior female photographer in the mainland, has recorded countless classic works for Chinese pop music with camera lens, such as Dou Wei, Tang Dynasty Band, Xu Wei, shunzi, Huaer band, etc.
Dou Wei was born in Beijing on October 14, 1969. In his love world, there were three women, first lover Jiang Xin, ex-wife singer Faye Wong and second wife Gao Yuan. In July 1996, Dou Wei married Faye Wong. Many people think that in the love battle with Dou Wei's ex girlfriend Jiang Xin, Faye Wong has become the ultimate winner. However, Faye Wong never thought that she had defeated an open enemy, but she didn't know that there was a hidden enemy beside her. She was plateau.
In 1994, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan met because of the cover of "black dream". At that time, plateau was a photographer of a magazine. He was hired by Dou Wei's band as a special photographer and was responsible for taking record photos, album covers and promotional photos for them. The same height as Faye Wong is 1.72 meters. She has beautiful hair and likes to dress up in cool clothes. She is a very eye-catching and beautiful girl. Plateau in life is a frank and resolute modern girl, who dares to say, do, love and hate. Dou Wei is deeply attracted by her frank character and beautiful appearance.
Later, when Dou Wei released the album sunny day, he once again named plateau as the photographer of the album cover. The cover of sunny day was a great success. After the record came out, Dou Wei invited plateau to dinner. At the dinner table, the two people were very congenial and had a good talk. The enthusiasm and vitality of the plateau made Dou Wei feel like a spring breeze. Dou Wei's charm and musical talent have also attracted plateau. Although he knows that there are other women around him, they still start dating and wear lovers' clothes in public, although they are not public lovers.
Because of Dou Wei, Wang Fei got to know the plateau and treated it as a good friend. However, for a long time, Bing Xueming's clever Faye Wong obviously felt the subtle relationship between the three. After the collapse of the love fairy tale, the arrogant Faye Wong was in great pain and wrote her real marital status into the song "cold war": "I never want to see through you. I hear that you are with my best friend / I also learn from others to watch you two act quietly, and I don't want to separate."
When Dou Wei and Faye Wong got married, Gao Yuan and Dou Wei also had a short break up. She was even influenced by the football craze and talked about a football boyfriend, but this time was very short. After giving birth to her baby, Faye Wong had to stay in Hong Kong for a long time because of her work. Every time Dou Wei calls Faye Wong, she is either working, playing cards or singing karaoke. Sometimes she can't find her at all.
Because of work and living in two places, just to make room for the plateau. Plateau returned to Dou Wei. One day, Dou Wei's mother ran into Dou Wei in the street with plateau. The next day, Dou's mother took time to see her son, only to find that she lived with him on the plateau. Dou's mother was very angry. She scolded Gao Yuan and drove her out. But as soon as Dou's mother left, the plateau returned to Dou Wei. Faye Wong doesn't know all this.
Once, Faye Wong's good friend Na Ying wanted to go back to Beijing, which reminded her of her infinite yearning for her home in Beijing. She temporarily decided to return with Na Ying to surprise Dou Wei. Unexpectedly, when Naying accompanied Faye Wong to step into the house, she happened to encounter a plateau that had no time to "clean up the battlefield" or even to avoid. Faye Wong was stunned and didn't know how to deal with it. She just burst into tears. Na Ying couldn't help but yell at the plateau. Plateau showed no sign of weakness and said to Na Ying, "if you find out the facts, scold me again." Naing said, "what are the facts? The truth is, are you blind when they get married? "
Facing Faye Wong's tears, Dou Wei just said that he was confused for a while. But when Faye Wong left, Dou Wei took the plateau to Shenzhen for a spring rock concert. At the beginning of March 1999, Dou Wei took plateau to eat in a restaurant in Tokyo, Japan. Unexpectedly, the "paparazzi" in Hong Kong watched him. When the reporter asked who plateau is, Dou Wei blurted out: "her name is plateau, is my love."
As Faye Wong is a Hong Kong music star, the "red light incident" caused a sensation in the entertainment industry, and Dou Wei was accused of being a "heartbreaker" who abandoned his wife and daughter. However, in an interview with the media, Gao Yuan said that from 1994 to 1999, she had been with Dou Wei and never separated at all.
Dou Wei's high-profile launch of the plateau, let Faye Wong and his marriage to the end. On March 25, 1999, Faye Wong went to the lawyer's office and unilaterally signed the separation agreement, which officially started the divorce procedure. In August 1999, Dou Wei and Faye Wong officially completed the divorce procedures. This vigorous love war between the three ended with Faye Wong leaving with her daughter.
The public opinion after the divorce is quite unfavorable to Dou Wei. Because of the marriage between Faye Wong and Dou Wei, a considerable number of Faye Wong's fans also fell in love with Dou Wei, and a considerable number of Dou Wei's fans also fell in love with Faye Wong. After the divorce, most of the fans began to blame Dou Wei. They thought it was Dou Wei's playfulness that hurt Faye Wong. Plateau, as a photographer, was soon affected by the scandal. Her magazine did not want to affect her reputation and dismiss her. Plateau did not shrink back, under the pressure of Philippine fans and news, in front of Dou Wei has been forced to smile.
One day in September 1999, Dou Wei went to a restaurant with plateau for dinner. On the way, some people recognized Dou Wei and pointed at him. They also yelled at the plateau beside Dou Wei, "the third party, shameless.". Although plateau has been pretending not to care, she is a weak woman after all, sitting in the box of the restaurant, she tears straight. Dou Wei painfully help plateau wipe away tears, said: "you are my lover, I want to give you a statement."
Faced with the danger of losing a large number of fans and the consensus of public opinion, Dou Wei bravely stood up and began to accept the media interview in public. He believed that the marriage with Faye Wong was a conspiracy. Once, in an interview, when a reporter asked him if he loved Faye Wong, he said excitedly: "I don't know what the definition of love is. If I love you, I give you a house and a car, and then people leave without any communication with each other, is that love? " On the contrary, about him and plateau, Dou Wei highly affirmed their love. In his spare time, Dou Wei took the hand of the plateau and spent a long time in the teahouse together. Plateau is always with Dou Wei, never mind the loss caused by the scandal, which makes Dou Wei very moved and warm. Because the plateau is not as famous as Faye Wong, their life is calm and calm, and this is the life Dou Wei wants, he is very happy.
In June 2002, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan officially registered for marriage. In August of the same year, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan gave birth to their daughter Dou Jiayuan. Dou Wei, who is a father again, is very happy. He decides to let plateau watch the children at home before his daughter is 5 years old, and work outside to earn money to support his family.
Dou Wei is a talented musician. He is obsessed with music. As long as he gets involved in music, he will enter the realm of selflessness. Many times, plateau a person at home with children, looking through the autumn still can not see Dou Wei. The child is small, one has to take care of the child all day long without any leisure. Plateau mood increasingly irritable, feel that Dou Wei's lack of care for themselves.
Many times, seeing Dou Wei come back, the plateau will lose his temper to him for no reason. Dou Wei is not feeling well either. Dou Wei himself is not good at words, but also a noble man with a lonely personality, which makes him encounter pressure when performing in the entertainment industry. Because of the divorce incident, he became a "heartbreaker" in Hong Kong and Taiwan, and many record companies failed to deal with his original records. As a result, Dou Wei can't help quarreling with Gao Yuan when he loses his temper.
In order to make a living, Dou Wei had to sing in the bar. With a monthly income of 5000 yuan, their life is stretched. Especially after the birth of the child, the expenses of milk powder and diapers make their living more than they can make ends meet. They can only live in the public housing allocated by their father's unit and live a miserable life. The economic embarrassment aggravates the contradiction between Dou Wei and the plateau.
Plateau has never lived through such a hard life, especially when her former friends came to see her in bright clothes. Compared with her disheartened life around her family and children, plateau has an indescribable sadness and pain in her heart. Looking at her humble home and thinking about her miserable life, compared with Faye Wong's popularity today, there is a voice in the heart of plateau saying: is such a life really happiness? The man around, can you really give yourself happiness?
One day, seeing that her daughter's milk powder was gone immediately, the child was so hungry that he cried, but Dou Wei was still addicted to music and didn't come back very late. In his anger, he contacted his former friends to find a job. A few days later, the plateau took up the old line of photography, taking pictures for Huaer band, and went everywhere. This is a departure from Dou Wei's original marriage idea. He feels that plateau betrays himself, and the contradiction between them becomes more and more serious.
Seven years of love
Because of Dou Wei's closed and suspicious nature, he is more and more reluctant to return to his cold home after going out to work. Dou Qi thought that her love was more and more perfect. She began to eat, go to bars, take photos and travel with friends.
One day, the plateau gave the child to Dou Wei's sister Dou
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