Jade and stone rub together
Yu Shi Xiang Rou is a Chinese idiom with the pronunciation of Y ù sh í Xi ā NgR ó u, which refers to the mixture of good and bad.
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[source] Kong Congzi vs. the king of Wei: "when the horse is on the same shaft, Bo Le will give advice to him; when jade and stone rub together, he will sigh."
Discrimination of words
Usage: used as predicate, object and attribute; used in figurative sentences
Jade and stone rub together
a lone phoenix and a widowed goose - gū hóng guǎ hú
the moment one alights from the official carriage - xià chē yī shǐ