defeat a force with a tenderness
The Chinese idiom, Pinyin is y ǐ R ó UZH ì g ā ng, which means to subdue the strong with a gentle way. From Jiangyuan Jianggang.
Analysis of Idioms
Soft over hard
Idiom usage
To act as a predicate or attributive
The origin of Idioms
Jiangyuan Jianggang written by Zhuge Liang of the Three Kingdoms states: "a good general can't break his rigidity, but his softness can't be rolled up. Therefore, the weak can control the strong, and the softness can control the strong."
defeat a force with a tenderness
preoccupied with the nation , forget about his family - guó ěr wàng jiā