one cannot help by a word
It's a Chinese idiom. The Pinyin is y à C í m à Z à n, which means that the poems are well written. It comes from historical records, Confucius family.
The source of the idiom is Confucius' family in historical records: "as for the spring and Autumn Annals, the pen is the pen, and the cutting is the cutting. Zi Xia's disciples can't praise it."
one cannot help by a word
good and bad fortune go together - huò fú tóng mén
be dreesed in fine clothes and ride on well-groomed horses - xiān yī nù mǎ
share bliss and misfortune together - yǒu fú tóng xiǎng,yǒu huò tóng dāng
entrust to another 's care the children one is about to leave behind as orphans - xíng gū jì mìng