Be solemn as a guest
XiangZhuang Rubin, pronounced Xi ā ngzhu ā NgR ú B ī n, is a Chinese idiom. It is like treating guests when we get along. Husband and wife respect each other. From the miscellany of Banqiao · lipin.
explain
[idiom]: XiangZhuang Rubin [Pinyin]: Xi ā ngzhu ā NgR ú B ī n [simplified spelling]: xzrb [explanation]: get along with each other as guests. Husband and wife respect each other.
source
Yu Huai of the Qing Dynasty wrote in his notes on Banqiao: Li Pin: "although Gou er's heart is as good as his guest, his nature is in harmony with him."
Discrimination of words
Grammar: used as predicate and attributive; used between husband and wife
Be solemn as a guest
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