be gentle and kind

be reluctant to part - yī yī bù shě

not to distinguish black from white - zào bái bù fēn

help people in distress - jiù kǔ jiù nàn

easy on the eye - yáng yáng yíng ěr

To have a meal - cān xiá yǐn xiè

Jingzhao thrush - jīng zhào huà méi

a person who has lost his spouse - dān hú guǎ fú

Pearl collection - yùn dú cáng zhū

Win and sell - yíng jiān mài qiào

Go with the flow - suí wù yīng jī