Look for a well
It is a Chinese idiom, Pinyin is t ó uh é m ì J ǐ ng, which means to seek for life or death; it is often used to scare people with suicide. From middle age.
The origin of Idioms
Yu Pingbo's middle age: "but on the other hand, if you say you have to watch, or if you don't have to watch, you have to jump and clap your hands, so that you can look for a well in the river."
Idiom usage
As an object or attributive
Analysis of Idioms
Go to the river to seek life and death
Look for a well
inspiring confidence without words - bù yán ér xìn
take pleasure in giving favours - hào xíng xiǎo huì