leave the matter at that
It's a Chinese idiom. Its pinyin is sh à Nb à g à nxi à. It's willing to give up. A dream of Red Mansions is a dream of Red Mansions.
The origin of Idioms
In a dream of Red Mansions by Cao Xueqin in Qing Dynasty, he said, "grandma just let him. When he saw that grandma was more beautiful than him and more popular than him, he was willing to give up?"
Idiom explanation
Good: well; sweet: willing, willing; stop, stop. Shanba: a good end. Gan Xiu: willing to stop. Willing to give up: willing to stop, so that the incident can be properly resolved. It means to settle a dispute well and not make it continue.
Idiom usage
Lao She's Camel Xiangzi: "if you don't go, she won't give up; if you go, she won't spare him."
Discrimination of words
Synonyms calm down, obscure antonyms make trouble, make trouble without reason
leave the matter at that
lips are dry and mouth is parched - kǒu zào chún gān