it is disrespectful to decline to decline
But not respectful, Chinese idiom, Pinyin Qu è zh ī B ù g ō ng, refers to the invitation to others, gifts, etc., if you refuse to accept, it is disrespectful.
pronunciation
Pinyin: Qu è zh ī B ù g ō ng phonetic: ㄑㄩㄝㄓㄧㄅㄨㄙ
Discrimination
Antonym: ignore; usage: subject predicate type; used as predicate and object; often used with "accept with shame". We feel ~, so we have to ask him to excuse us. ——Zou Taofen's experience after a miserable business
Classics
Mencius: but it is disrespectful.
Idiom story
During the Warring States period, Wan Zhang, a student of Mencius, asked Mencius for advice on interpersonal communication. Mencius thought that he should be respectful to people. Wan Zhang said: "it's disrespectful to refuse other people's gifts, but why?" Mencius said, "if a noble person gives you something, it's disrespectful for you to refuse, so you should accept it."
it is disrespectful to decline to decline
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