Please make the best of it
It's better to stimulate others to do things with words than to ask them to do things in a positive way.
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It is better to use words to stimulate others to do things than to ask them to do things.
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The third chapter of the journey to the West: "Bajie thought again:" it's better to motivate the general than the general. Wait for me to motivate him. " Li Yu of Qing Dynasty wrote "lianxiangban · yangwang": "I have a point. Please motivate the general rather than the general. I don't know if I can motivate him or inspire some ideas."
Please make the best of it
a dragon 's head and a snake 's tail - lóng tóu shé wěi
produce clouds with one turn of the hand and rain with another - fù yǔ fān yún
To pull a sword to destroy Tibet - lā bǎi cuī cáng