judge other people 's feelings by one 's own
As a Chinese idiom, Pinyin is n é NGJ ì NQ ǔ P ì, which means to be able to use analogy for oneself; metaphor can be used to treat others as well as yourself. From the Analects of Confucius Yongye.
The origin of Idioms
Yongye, the Analects of Confucius: "it can be said that benevolence has already been used to draw analogy."
Idiom usage
It is contractive; it is predicate and attributive; it contains commendatory meaning. The only man for me is the greedy thief; the closest analogy is benevolence and righteousness. ——Zhang Binglin's mushroom theory. Qian Mu's outline of national history: "if you can draw a close analogy, try to set up a simple analogy. If you write a chronicle or biography for a sportsman today, it will be very different from that for a musician
judge other people 's feelings by one 's own
have no place too ashamed to show one 's face - wú dì kě róng
try to shorten the neck of a crane and lengthen that of an owl -- to go against nature - duàn hè xù fú