Enchanting array

The ghost is crying - guǐ kū tiān chóu

scant oneself in food and clothes - shài yī suō shí

Self willed - shì xìng rèn qíng

grow sturdily - zhuó zhuàng chéng zhǎng

speak generally - fàn fàn ér tán

discard the old ways of life in favour of the new - dǐng xīn gé gù

be roughly the same - bù xiāng shàng xià

consider others in one's own place - tuī jǐ jí rén

Bottle drop and hairpin fold - píng zhùi zān zhé

one's inmost feelings - pōu gān lì dǎn