self-controlled
In Chinese, the Pinyin is j ì NTU ì y ǒ UD ù, which means that the forward and backward movements are in accordance with the law. From the book of rites, Quli.
The origin of Idioms
In the book of rites, Quli, written by Dai Sheng in the Western Han Dynasty, it is said that "there is a degree of advance and a degree of retreat, and there is a situation in the left and right."
Idiom usage
As a predicate or object; used in dealing with affairs. However, the more cautious you are, the more flexible you are, and the closer you are, the more calm you are. "Listening to the rain and talking about it - zanlilang" by Fuge in Qing Dynasty
self-controlled
as far apart as heaven and earth - tiān rǎng zhī gé
agreement is difficult if there are too many people - rén duō zuǐ zá