obey others against one's will
Chinese idiom, Pinyin is Ji à NGX à nxi à NGC ó ng, which means to lower yourself to comply with others. From Zuo Zhuan, the eleventh year of Yin Gong.
Idioms and allusions
[source] in the eleventh year of seclusion in Zuo Zhuan, it is said that "only Zheng Guozhi, who is a member of the state of Zheng, can be reconciled to each other like old marriage." It is expected that the Chinese people will not lose peace, but will be promoted as a navy commander with high morale. It is said that the officials of Fujian will come to terms with each other and the ship Bureau will be at hand. (the second volume of Gao Yang's the history of the palace of the Qing Dynasty)
Discrimination of words
It's used as a predicate or object; it's used to mean that one wrongs one's own will to obey others.
obey others against one's will
Take up the flag and take up the umbrella - shōu qí juàn sǎn
A word from a gentleman is a whip from a horse - jūn zǐ yī yán,kuài mǎ yī biān
wear one 's heart on one 's sleeve - pī xīn lì xuè